Monday, February 28, 2011

(Turn) the experience of married women successfully

 What are their better life do not want to brag, but I think we need to learn from their mistakes grow, must not own a pit Yishuai fell a further fall. Hope that these experiences in love and marriage you need them.
1. most important, the girls still have to try to make yourself some good, from the capacity to face.
Taiwan's famous advertisements: the most beautiful woman seriously. Each person has the right to choose their own lifestyle, but be sure to seriously, on their own, to work, for life, such women, if not natural beauty, but also the beauty of a calm self-confidence, and only time such a confrontation the United States can and also enjoy the type of man is good. playing a man playing live people will eventually be played.
may not work very well a lot of sisters who can pick up was clean and refreshing themselves, but also a great advantage. Anyway, the reality of the man or the first easy to judge by appearances not only love a man so beautiful woman, woman for the clean and fresh, most men have a favorable impression.
2. a good man, have their own requirements, the woman did not ask.
all their own work muddling along, but then his girlfriend has many requirements of men, or kept at a distance better. such a man, marriage has become the highest probability of male poison tongue. We married sisters, at least ask for is respect for her husband to be that they have the right to call his wife to drink the man is not a good marriage.
3. married to see the main character, character.
similar personality, similar outlook on life, money, marriage and life view is the most good protection. personality is different from the two people do all Shuibu Lai, even if the world recognized as golden couple, born of a couple is not married, after all, most of the time of your life is to spend with him, and Lengnuanzizhi.
4. the beginning that not good enough for your man and he will always be good enough for you.
some good girls, always encounter some seemingly potential shares man, you change yourself for him, to pay all, he said, you think of his great, he's (education, money, ability, status, appearance, etc.) not good enough for you. I'm around a lot of examples of sisters, Without confidence, you can only rely on exchanges give way to a man, later on you will not be good, your good will only make him more self-esteem.
5. entrusted lifetime ago, to see his family.
not to see how much money his family, is to look at his house the family is not family harmony, concern for comity. a family of a man playing a woman, there is still indifferent, pretended family, and they will not control you The life and death. Each family has a drawback, to ask what your boyfriend's attitude, blind blind loyalty of the men, the heart of his wife's respect is limited.
6. of their manpower, manpower is also a man of his girlfriend did not interesting. for their Shousong, the men of a certain selfish girlfriend of manpower is the most unable to marry.
money is the most a man can see what the nature and feelings. sisters who love not about money, but the money if he and let you feel right, he is not on the right think about you. In love, normal consumption should be, to meet the beginning that the man is too clear to be aa good at calculating, too afraid to lose out . in the future of marriage, there are many places need to sacrifice, so that men will be the first run away.
7. hit man can not be, be sure to break up a fight. Fa, the foot a few man can not ship to, we must find a break. old saying, when to shut the troubled anti.
8. love girls have their own bottom line.
must not love him because to give up their dignity, an insult to their parents, abandon their work. good romance, marriage must be a win-win situation, rather than unilateral sacrifice and fulfill.
9. meet her like a man, must be brave chase.
unrequited love is the hardest and the most no results.
10. have something to say so.
have any idea, say it, do not let men guess, to communicate, your life will be more happy. can not communicate that you do not guarantee happiness. I think his girlfriend did not mind a man is a guess for the music. for this reason, lost a good man, really a pity.
11. Do not start virtuous in front of men like to do.
If you pay him peace of mind, they did not know return, he has suspected of machismo. If you are a long time, and my heart at ease, do no good as before, he would was injured, he will think you lied or you do not love him. not as good as a start, there is propriety of showing love, give him an opportunity to show, let him do something for you. To tell the truth, the men paid for their something more profound impression. He was more you do, pay more, he is the more you yearn, the less open. Instead, you pay, and he did not feel he was more access. in marriage, often do chores, always take care of the children of men to give up the possibility of marriage is much lower, it is precisely because the home is created by his hard, he could not bear to give up. a lot of efforts to reach the most cruel man has a virtuous, selfless woman in silence to pay. I finally determined to marry her boyfriend, because he and I said: I worry about you, I always fear you live well, or come across, as long as one does not see you, I am very worried about you . His hard work and I appreciate both of us to get along the best model.
12. When the break is off.
all make mistakes possible, but if the same mistake again, that is, they have a problem . a lot of sisters because ; I have hh years old or worse, in short, there is no constant. this sentence led me directly to some bad feelings out. because I know that if you want to change that relationship will only get worse, then I get hurt by will be more. My courage is doing well I am now the most solid foundation.
13. for love and love, not for a wedding or a beautiful dream of life and love of luxury.
all the happiness are required to pay the price, but do not let some consideration ruin your life. young girls easily fooled by vanity, but in a real marriage, that can give you at night kicking off the quilt cover is worth the man entrusted life of men.
14. to cherish the true love you and good for you man.
good men to really good way for you Hello, you are not condoned, nor is the name of love bound you. Such men rarely, if met, be sure to cherish. Young men are often the way with pure love of his girlfriend, he may mature, but his love is true, do not lightly give up. After more life experiences in the community, you will know how valuable a true.
15. all too late.
many good men in this world is hard to find the other half. Not all men only love virgin, not all men would care about your previous marriage, but not all men care about your age, education. There are many good marriages, men love, women's own stupid, naive and and round body, or the mouth of the sinking mole. you have received the injury, he will double and care, your courage, make him more respect. So, even if injured, but also the same as Kim Sam Soon, brave love, like not been hurt. you only own the first open, the world will let you go.
16. Do not start the pursuit of a man to pay his own heart.
good men and bad men in the pursuit of your early, will care for you, then you send you, give you a text message, take care of you when you are sick. not one was nice to you, you will immediately fall into the trap, think about, more to see, make a decision. General four months, enough contact, enough to make you understand him. online communication is not, and then not too long network of contacts, and real life makes sense. you have to eat with him, go shopping together do something in order to understand him. you have a good time, you know. In many cases, not a man to deceive us, is our own lying to yourself.
17. If you love him and accept him now, do not imagine His change.
if he could change, of course the best, or to think about, you can not accept it. drawback of every marriage, marriage will be amplified. He smoked, and you love him, Try to accept it, too few men to quit after marriage. The same is true of other shortcomings.
18.30 over the age of the men are living habits, lifestyle has been fixed, as a woman completely the possibility of change is not too large, he You need to adapt to him. Instead, the young men are more willing to change for the beloved woman.
this one is entirely my personal feelings may be wrong, please forgive me.
look back, I was wrong after all are committed, but fortunately my nature is a Most are derived. I write, some are corny, I can be true for every one is bitterly painful lesson to, I will tell my daughter, the mother of the child as a blessing. < br> I have received the wound fresh in our memory, hope and sisters can bypass these mistakes and find their true love and happiness.

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